I can't take credit for the 'Paralysis by Analysis' phrase and I also can't remember where I heard it either. But how true is it? A group of wonderful women who train their own horses were talking about self-sabotage strategies that keep us from moving forward. Overthinking, or paralysis by analysis, was one of the … Continue reading Paralysis by Analysis
Some people should all over themselves regularly. Daily, hourly, sometimes by the minute. Guilt, shame, 'I'm not enough', 'I need to do more'. Women are queens of should-ing. But who says you should anyway? Do a little experiment for yourself right now. Go on, it will only take a minute. Stand up and shake yourself … Continue reading I should, I want to, I AM!
Here is Rumble taking responsibility for ending the lesson by confiscating my whip. Apparently it was time for his lunch. A rider I know, let's call her Debbie, goes through horses faster than I go through coffee. Well ok, maybe not THAT fast... Anyway, she buys a lovely horse but within months or sometimes weeks, … Continue reading A Powerful Thing